Did you know Christmas, New Years and Valentine’s Day are the most common days couples get engaged? I had no idea! Well except Valentines Day seemed obvious. Anyhow, when I came across that random fact, I thought it would be a good time to share how we pulled off a debt free wedding last fall.
Our wedding had 100 guests, full dinner, DJ, awesome photographer and bridal party. All for 10K.
Project management is my day job and I used those same skills to plan a stress free and debt free wedding. And so can you!
I’m an avid fan of the outdoors. I’m not hard core or anything but every so often, I like to push myself outside my comfort zone. I wanted to do a multi-day backcountry camping trip. In Ontario Canada, the first place that comes to mind is Algonquin Park. And rightfully so, it’s beautiful there. But this time around, I was less enthused about that option. I wanted more of a challenge, something a little more remote. And then I discovered the La Cloche Silhouette trail, an 80km loop, in Killarney Park! Perfect! The trail is difficult, rugged and has amazing views! You know how the saying goes: ‘be careful what you wish for’. This trip gave me everything I wished for and then some. Including an uncooperative bear!
Have you ever been told you can’t do something and just wanted to prove them wrong?
I have a confession to share… I got addicted to playing a video game. It started out as a light distraction until someone told me I couldn’t reach the highest level with a certain character type. I spent the next 9 months dedicated to achieving what they said was impossible. That taught me a couple things: with patience, the right tools, strategies and willingness to ignore mainstream nay-sayers, you can accomplish most anything.
Do you have goals that you’ve put down as pipe dreams? Or maybe your dream life isn’t in the realm of ‘possible’ by society’s standards? I bet in a lot of cases, it is possible.
Just like video games, it’s a matter of honing some character traits, and using the right shields and weapons out there to manage your money.
It was mid-winter 2015. I had trudged through the snow on my usual 20 minute walk to work. What I really wanted to do was call in sick. I was exhausted from working all weekend implementing a software upgrade. But I had a meeting first thing with my director; I thought I was walking into a 1:1. But instead: Lay off… Shock… Confusion…
A few years ago we made a pivotal decision in our relationship: move in together. Not in my 1200 square foot rental, but into his 600 square foot bachelor condo. WHAT an earth were we thinking?! We wondered that sometimes too. It’s safe to say we get strong reactions when we explain our living situation and insist it’s possible. It can also be a great way to reduce consumerism and contribute to healthy financials.